3 Reasons You Should Love Your Spouse

Well, this planet is all about you and me. Love, affection, desire, happiness and sadness surround relationship like the orbit system. It is such a beautiful blessing to fall into love, getting married and in be in a wonderful relationship.

However, are you feeling rusty, getting into blame game, not giving quality time or desire has gone into ashtray. We all know being in a relationship is a compromise. One of my senior colleagues who is very patient in life rephrased “marriage is not a compromise, it is a series of compromise”. On the other hand, we are not observing or taking everything for granted.

Here are some points that we may want to acknowledge about our spouse:

1. A GPS Feedback System: Well, we are not talking about any mapping or scientific experiment. Though this is a tracking system, we always find this amazing tool with our partner. You may have achieved success, or tasted a bit of failure, having hard time with your boss, or cherishing success of of your new venture-who do you talk to; Yes, you are right, with your spouse or partner. She or he is constantly beside you to listen, nurture positivity, shoulder to cry on when you are really down-always a constant point to point tracking system.

2. Financial Manager: Who doesn’t want a car, big house or private pool? However, stark reality might be different. So, what do you do then. You commit for investment without realizing the thin ice. Now, here comes your spouse who would give you a reality check. Your rising credit card debt, mounting school fees of your child, increasing consumption habits, installment of insurance, plan for a travel-all these expenditure are reminder of reality. So, yes, s/he is always there in providing you bottom line/rain check in financing your long term investment plans.

3. Empathy Ambassador: We, the job holders or businessman or be it a freelancer in most cases dump our baggage on our spouse. However, when you sincerely ask, “How was your day?” It’s like utopia. This trend goes for days, months, years. We are yet to realize even then, my spouse is my constant support system. S/he may have been busy with children, cooking, managing household and so and so. What we are doing is getting busy with Netflix, facebook, you tube or reading Stephen King. Sounds selfish,right!

I can go on and on that we should have a reciprocal mindset in nurturing the best and beautiful thing between us. It would show your proactive presence, gratefulness and above all love. Let your love make the relationship an unforgettable venture on earth.

Cheers!